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More Pieces to the Puzzle are Missing and You Took Them!
When you first put together the puzzle all of the pieces are there but as you go through relationships, friendships and family, each one you embark upon there is something that is removed from you.
Even though you go into the relationships with an open mind. You try to give each individual the benefit of the doubt, realizing that no one is perfect. However, when you constantly run into obstacles at the beginning, middle or the end and when things does not work out you find a piece of yourself being removed each time, whether it is mentally, physically or emotionally.
The energy you put into the relationships to make them work you find the pieces are hard to replace once they have been misused and abused. I believe verbal abuse is more serious than physical abuse. Words are cutting and they are used to control to set the tone to pull the strings of your mind, they are the path to physical abuse.
To get back at a person we say things intentionally to hurt, so when the physical abuse appears its bad but the feeling is not felt because you have been numbed by the verbal abuse for so long.
We get into a comfortable state sometimes of fear and content of knowing what we have and we do not want to take the chance and deal with the unknown unless we are forced to let go.
When we hurt someone there is no consideration of the damage it will cause with the person and the relationship. The only concern is selfish it is about us our wants and needs and not the other person.
You wonder why relationships does not work, we have selfish needs to be met, we are not honest. Once the individual has met those need they are now disposable and they move on. What happen to the individual who was working on building a solid foundation? What you have done is broken up the puzzle that was so nicely put together, you tare it apart and you lose some of the pieces.
How many pieces to your puzzle are missing and do you know which pieces they are?
Put the Pieces of the Puzzle back together again
Women standing Hand in Hand we are Strong Together
She is special
She is special she is equipped to be strong when she is weak, No man will take the place of her child, she is more than a woman who carries a baby, she sacrifices for her family, when there is no food to eat she will endure the hunger pains to make sure her children eat, she will defend her children from any hurt, harm or danger, she is loving, kind and caring, she can look in the eyes of her children and know they are lying, she is the protector of her children, she is reserved, she teaches her children morals and values, she gives of herself unselfishly never asking for anything in return, she smiles through her pain, she is a woman of many hats, she is a woman who has multiple jobs and completes them all, even when she is tired, she hardly ever complains, she gives of herself every, second, minute and hour, her pay is the smiles on her childrens face. She is a diamond. She is amazing!